Nostr suffers terribly by leadership all having gigantic accounts, so that they don't know how dull and lonely and frustrating Nostr can be for the remaining 99,996% of us, down here in the steerage class.
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Feeling lonely on Nostr? Come and follow me... You will miss those lone times really soon.
Nostr suffers terribly by leadership all having gigantic accounts, so that they don't know how dull and lonely and frustrating Nostr can be for the remaining 99,996% of us, down here in the steerage class.
Twitter didn't get so big by being
50 Million People Wait for Jack To Post Something
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if nostr is not used for social media, I can live with that.
what matters to me is things like NWC, runstr, shopstr (probably in some better form), conduit .market (if it takes off), routstr, catalax .network and many other I forgot to mention.
users don't have to know about nostr
We need the social media use case to keep the relay network up. OtherStuff all rides on relays and uncensorabilty will decline, if the number of relays goes down.
Kind 01 notes are the Nostr equivalent to hashrate. That's why they had to come first, in the spec.
You don't know that.
01 is important now in early stage, who knows what will in the future.
Take dns, everyone runs it because it's useful. We don't know what kind will have "hashrate" utility.
But my view might be skewed because this the first social media I seriously use. I was on twitter for maybe a year (and got pretty sick of that place tbh) before nostr.
None of the OtherStuff has enough users to keep the nodes up (yet).
I'm hoping to get institutional customers that only need to maintain their own node-network, but the social feed is the strongest pan-network use case. We need that use case hopping to keep Internostr exchange up, so that the Intranostr npubs can use the external nodes to hop from one Intranostr to another, smoothly and without being conspicuous, and to occasionally join the Internostr conversations.
Otherwise, you end up disjointed islands and the value proposition melts. Communication networks should be noisy and busy.
I understand that.
It very well might work the other way around where the islands realize they would benefit in having notes from other islands.
e.g. you have a zapstore with it's own relays and want to talk about apps (or specific app) and that app has it's own relays where people use all kind of notes. both will benefit with publishing to each other's relays.
other staff
How to get followers and engagement on nostr:
Make sure you post stuff jack, Derek etc want to repost.
I know it's similar on other social media, but at least there there's vast communities of 'taste makers' respected within certain fields/interests.
People who have specific/niche interests do stand out on nostr, but they tend to not last long cos there's not a community for them. People do like their posts and appreciate them but they are not getting the conversations they are actually looking for.
The yo-yo guy (I think he's gone) for example, but there have been many. Yeah he got appreciated, he stood out. (He wasn't even saying the price of bitcoin when it reached ATHs!! It's a pretty low bar lol). But he probably left for a forum or for Reddit or there's probably dozens of yo-yo people/community bubbles on twitter, or insta etc
Yeah I liked the yoyo guy. Also the banana pin person, and the inkblotart, and art in general, homesteaders, new junior developers and vibe coders, video gamers, poker players, mempool casine bettors, zbd community builders, dungeons and dragons, and even the e-thots. Many come and go. Goonies never say die.
This is something I am just realising having started this ALT recently. My previous npub had over 650 followers built up over a couple years and I would have fairly good engagement and decent conversations. Not always, but enough to keep me engaged, after all I'm only a pleb looking for mild levels of engagement, not some InfLuEnCooR.
But now on this new npub it feels like shouting into the void again π it is possible to build up a tribe and engage with each other on nostr but it's a slogg of months to years unless you're following the nostr zeitgeist.
If we truely want to #grownostr we need to make a more concious effort to interact with each other's posts with comments likes and zaps, but most importantly by comments! Even some dumb throw away comment is better than the void π
100%
Only way to build followers on here is interaction.
took me 2 years to hit primal trending lol
Thatβs when I realised being an influencer must be absolute notifications hell π
Leadership? There's influencers but not much in the way of leadership. That's difficult to develop.
Everyone with a large npub is automatically a leader, since they determine what everyone else sees. They're at least gatekeepers.
Careful. Gonna make people upset.
What are they gonna do? Mute me even harder?
i'm cheering for my favourite nostr killdozer.
you go girl!
Web of Trust at its finest πͺ
I will never shut up about how horrible Web of Trust is for user adoption.
We shouldnβt use a gun to kill cancer on a Petri dish.
"I will never shut up about how horrible WoT is."
That's my version.
Oh I didn't know you are not into WoT. Share more?
I think the zapstore use case is a legit use.
I donβt think Iβve ever been pro-WoT, maybe WoT curious at times. Perhaps at the beginning when I did not understand it properly.
When you really think about the long-term effects of WoT you realize how detrimental it is to the growth of Nostr.
Until the death of WoT, or at least the current aberration that is implemented by most clients and relays, the OGs who managed to amass a big following just need to sit on their asses while the new user will struggle to get any attention. The new guyβs only hope to become relevant is if one of those OGs looks hard enough and follows them.
The OGs did not have a WoT filter to pass through early on, and had that been the case, most of them wouldnβt even be here. I probably wouldnβt be here.
WoT kills spam but it also kills the host.
Hmmm, so it appears that I don't understand it properly. Can you help me understand what happens and how is it that affecta my pretty dead engagement levels which many others seem to experience too?
Sure! People only see posts from those they follow, or from people their follows follow, it may or may not get any deeper than that.
Unless you are well-connected, this creates a bubble for yourself. If not enough people follow you, or if those that follow you donβt have many followers, then your posts stay within your little circle.
Your followers can help you by reposting your content, reacting, or replying to it, for it to be viewed by those outside your bubble but still part of theirs.
You can increase your visibility by tagging your post with popular relevant tags.
Let me know if that helps!
Yes, WoT is a form of nepotism, which is the _opposite_ of PoW.
Community relays actually alleviate the worst effects of WoT, tho. I think you're wrong about that.
They at least give everyone a chance to be quickly seen and prove themselves. If you get thrown out of a community, you can go someplace else, or start your own relay, and your newfound frens can follow you. There's no lag.
With WoT, nobody ever knows you came, you wallow in obscurity for quite some time, and you then leave without making a single sound that anyone heard.
I'm not an OG, but I arrived right before the WoT stuff started and everyone stopped looking at global, so I've had to really scrape follows together. Npub by npub.
That's why I sit in steerage, even though I regularly trend. It's a paradox that confuses everyone. Why is she always so frustrated and angry, when we all see her stuff and respond? You can see my stuff and respond because I've worked on this from sunup to sundown, every damn day, for two years.
It's been absolutely brutal and if I weren't trying to market projects and promote my frens, I would have long since thrown in the towel.
This has been way too hard. It doesn't make sense that it's such a struggle to post such popular content, but I simply missed the OG jump and am permanently screwed.
Also, I hit a complete follow-wall around 6k. Nothing I did budged that number, for nearly a year.
Sometimes went entire weeks without adding a single follower. That is completely unnatural, so I have questions.
Most of what I see is by libertarians with about 8.5 followers and a little bit of Theo Vinπ·, sometimes referred to as @Ben Justmanπ·
And look at me here thinking you need to follow some people actually not to be lonely here?! π€ i dont know... hey thats just me... I dont think your followers and not followings will make you less lonely. π
I have 30 something followers and follow 50+ I aint lonely here at all... π€£β¨οΈπ€π
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As an experiment I recommend all the Devs made a new account, on primal. Tick all of the interests when making it.
That's what the average person sees when they get here.
Someone needs to have a talk with the people at @primal
They don't even have gardening as an interest when you onboard, they push the same group of limited interest people onto everyone.
And according to almost everyone primal is the best for onboarding..
Come on now this ain't right
Primal devs DGAF about anyone who isn't very enthusiastic about sniffing each others' farts.
They were paid, to come here. Not home-grown talent.
I think the principles in play here are that genuine communication is a two way street.
Follow all the people you like, get the perfect feed, but when you post something and no one sees it, no one even knows it exists, that is the hollow fiat communication.
Empty user experiences are hard to onboard with.
I like the "free market" feel of Nostr.
Like moving into a new town where nobody knows me. Laying low at first, not going on stage anywhere. Observing what's around, what needs are already covered and where there are gaps. Checking out profiles of people with comments I appreciate. Keeping the permanency in mind, gradually putting out some of my own, building trust. It would be alarming to instantly have thousands of followers!
The global feeds aren't a great place to start. The follow packs are handy, and those can grow.
#grownostr
Thatβs why we need more people, to dilute the obvious accounts that end up controlling the narrative, that are pushed by most client apps or followed for the zaps. To be able to create an alternative of interests, of people, of visions for the small accounts.
Hilarious how the engagement on this post kind of refutes your whole theory.
Say things worth responding, reacting and paying for, THAT is how nostr is modelled.
Twitter has everyone extended on credit then at a moment's notice, they get throttled and banned. Just like how drug dealers sucker new customers.
No, it proves her point. She's one of the big leaders that we all follow. And she deserves to be - this isn't criticism in the least.
I like that extended credit drug dealer analogy. Very apt.
I like living in the sewer. Less noise down here.
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Am good. Just saw you in the wild and wanted to say hi
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your loneliness, anger toward those with βmoreβ, and need for recognition of your significance started long before nostr ever existed
Feel lucky to enter the party before the mainstream!
When people start to see your gigantis your leadership will begin!
Opinions are key. Up to you to see things for yourself
In my view: there is a proof-of-work required in Nostr usage. You have to go and find what you need, follow, interact, zap, and then filter what you donβt.
Challenge: spend a week doing triple the amount of zaps youβve done befor. Then see how it feelsβ¦?
follow me
I just looked through my follow list. Interestingly, I have some of the biggest accounts all the way down to some of the smallest, with no big gaps between sets of numbers. Just observing and interacting with ones I appreciate as I go.
I thought I'd see an obvious dividing line between follow counts, but not really.
steerage class lol
yeah some days it's boring but sometimes i find super interesting stuff. on those days i zap and repost. this is the way
Nostr fudders are back. π
Trending 24 is real
I still think shouting into the void will work eventually.
Proof of work is the way to grow!
In all energy manifestations
So Nostr's strength is its weakness?
I'm new here but it seems pretty good so far.
Welcome to Nostr!
Itβs alright.
Your signal drives your engagement.
#WTFSTR π
"50 Million People Wait for Jack To Post Something"
i hope we donΒ΄t have so many sheeps here
you are totally right, we need more people on nostr
#plebchain #followcahin #grownostr
A decent enough solution **_would be_** hashtags, and new users are suggested hasgtags instead of npubs - would be, but isn't, because people abuse hashtags and then people unfollow the hashtags. I suggest limiting the number of hashtags that can be added to a note, or relayed as a relay policy - 3 tags seems like a good maximum.
That way, interest groups break off into their own silos, instead of the current psychology of an implied demand for conformity.
Hashtags only retain utility within a good relay.
How does a relatively less techy person know which relays are good? How do I check their differences?
Look at the global feed and scroll for 15 minutes.
Eww. I don't like the global feed. I think I can handle one level higher in the techiness department, if it means skipping global

Jumble
A user-friendly Nostr client for exploring relay feeds
You are whitelisted on theforest, so everyone sees you there.
Cool, thanks
I'm guessing it's this "theforest.nostr1.com" thingy in the top right? I see notes... I could do a little test... Okay but wait, what does this have to do with finding good relays?
Jumble is a relay explorer. You can look at the feeds of different relays. There are just safe-for-work examples preset, in that list, but you can add any relays you want to regularly look at, or combined relays into one feed.
Ooooh it makes more sense now. That was not obvious... This merits more exploration
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