Two weeks ago I read that a negative thought can linger in our minds for up to 24 hours, while a positive one lasts only about 8 - and so aiming for a 3:1 minimum ratio helps rewire. Sort of the grounds of meditation, but numerically.
Since then, a friend and I have been sharing our three positives of the day almost every night, whether big or small.
Simple, but meaningful 💜
What are your three positives today?
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My dogs when i Wake up . Smiling with my wife drinking coffee in the morning . When i feed my fish 😂👌
Wonderful Mickey!!! Can't put a price in any of those. It's the day to day things that shouldn't be taken for granted!
The fish bit caught me off guard I won't lie hahaha 🐠
Say hi to wifey!!
Today I woke up 🥳 I've gotten to do a peaceful morning routine while my puppy is still sleepy 🥳 and I'm about to make some coffee 🥳
Little positive things still count. But I have faith the day will bring me even more 🥰
Couldn’t agree more! Appreciating the small joys helps us notixe beauty 💜 Without the small things, big moments often feel fleeting 🫂
How was the coffee? Here for any more daily updates! 🥰
Coffee was good! The day is rolling along. Trying not to let myself get stressed 🥰
Negativity bias is real.
Absolutely!
Love this! I try to take the time to notice beautiful moments. My phone is full of pictures of flowers, or a tree with the backdrop of a pretty cloud, a cat sleeping on the sidewalk, etc.
But persistent negative thoughts are often the result of negative subconscious beliefs and require some deep, intentional, re-wiring.
That's lovely! Being able to appreciate the little things is actually a skill.
Yes totally agreed, this little practice wouldn't be much when struggling with deeply rooted negative conditioning.
neat observation. it is good to develop agency in terms of the thoughts that inhabit your mind. they can be good tenants that maintain or even improve the place, or dirty squatters who lead to its degradation
i like the imagery, specially since I have bad tenants right now lol
@mac6 yes!! Great metaphor. Some will be potential tenants just passing, gotta let them pass, and manage those that rent or squat. Love it love it! Thanks for that.
@ostrich mcawesome 🫂 are they temporary bad tenants on their way out, or are they squatters? 🫂 We're here to chat if it helps!
1) Wonderful sunrise
2) Fantastic breakfast
3) Quality time with loved one's
And to top it all off, I got quite a lot of stuff done & spent sats in 3 different places.
Awesome 🔥 can't beat a good sunrise to start the day right, and it only got better!
1. My cat spent time with me
2. Found a new place to live
3. Will have "me-time" without kids dogs or anyone for 45 minutes later today.
♥️
1. I saw crazy pink sunset, sort of sky divided in two as if Moses went up to the sky.
2. Puzzles 😄
Woah! I'm trying to picture it but I bet anything I can imagine won't do justice to what you saw!
🧩
That was crazy view, never seen anything like that
This is why I Nostr. Good stuff. My wife and I just shared ours. Should make it a habit.
This is lovely 💜 glad you guys did
- listening to Alexia Chellun in the morning
- the view to the mountains
- my anticipation for the coachings i'm giving this afternoon
Thank you @Juls
Not only the coaching, but also the anticipation to it! How amazing.
Thank you for sharing!
I am breathing
I had lunch
I have a roof over my head
Food and a roof over our heads are honestly some of the most underrated privileges.
Love this 💜
My wife, my daughter and my other daughter.
Won't fail a day 💜