HannahMR

I've probably got a whole journal entry about it.

Don’t try to spice things up. If you’ve been with someone a long time and the “spark” is gone, don’t try to “spice things up”. It will just lead to everyone feeling pressure and frustration. The “spark” leaves when you’ve grown apart, or become room mates, or when the both of you have just stopped trying. And deciding to do some sexual role play scene with your room mate that you’re just not that into really isn’t going to go well for anyone! Instead, reconnect. Read a book together. Go out for long walks. Go on a trip together. Get drunk together. When you can actually see that person again, when you remember why you were so into them… that’s where the “spark” lives.

Banks and banking services still are really valuable to Bitcoiners, and always will be, and please make use of them. The most obvious current example is the wrench attack. There are plenty of people who very famously have ridiculous amounts of money, pop stars, sports stars etc. but a wrench attack is very rare there. It’s not just because they have security teams, it’s also because they have banks… they don’t keep the money in their house! The banks have the vaults, they have the security cameras, they have the security guards. If you are a bitcoiner who doesn’t have the means to or the desire to have all those things, well, you go get a safety deposit box and pay a bank for their willingness to let you enjoy all of their security efforts. Wrench attacks happen when a thief gets the idea that you have a giant pile of digital cash accessible in your home. So Bitcoiners, please don’t be scared of using banking services, pay them for their security services, and please don’t have a pile of digital cash in your home!