Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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This fact may be the main reason Nostr may never gain mainstream adoption.
Metadata mining and tracking on Nostr is a goldmine for bad actors if there was any meaningful adoption.
This is true for any server. Everything you do on a browser is tracked by the server.
Sure but a centralized server can keep the data private and can be held accountable when it doesn't , Nostr relays can't.
Relays can be held accountable too. They are just a regular server. The data of what you browse is private to them. The only public data is what you post, which by design is public for everyone (the purpose of nostr)
In your OP you wrote:
> Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
I understand that the relay data is public by design and that is what makes the accountability impossible.
You also wrote.
> So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
How would a user know who is running the relay and why would you trust them with your data?
Each relay is private property of an operator. You can just reach out to them or stop using those you cannot find. When you open the relay page, there should be a privacy policy and terms and conditions for your use. Regardless if it is paid or free. Lack of doing so just opens them up for litigation from users.
Thank you for all the answers, still trying to figure out what the appropriate action from my part is after reading your OP post.
I'm not sure that reading through privacy policy, terms and conditions for each relay will be very helpful.
Maybe there is a list of "recommended" or "trusted" relays from reputable Nostr community members to choose from?
A list of recommended relays would be very centralizing. Ideally each user chooses a different operator, which requires them to search and understand what each of them is offering.
We don't have tools at the moment, but it could be something somebody builds.
there are currently so many factors that make this whole process near impossible to achieve:
- it's not only about trust in relays, but also trust in end users as they could re-broadcast what they see.
- clients have default big pre-defined relays
users are told they "own" their data which is kind of true only under very specific conditions
among other major onboarding issues, nostr is advertised with crazy statements: "you own your data" but as many others also mentioned before, data ownership is not real, it has never been.
and you can't ever have true control over where your data is going. for this to be real, each user would have their own household relay, all clients would use outbox model and, even then, it would only work for protected events while also hoping your posts don't end up broadcasted to relays that don't care about nip-70.
this makes me think there could be data crawlers all over nostr that will find your data and possibly just sell it.
PoW and paid relays are solutions yet to be, for the former, deployed on more clients, and for the latter, accepted by people (no one wants to pay)
- there's basically no information on the biggest relays rn and who owns them as far as i know
what relays to use in order to have the broadest view possible or to help with discoverability? nostr.wine looks okay... but what else is there?
if your client doesn't use the outbox model, setting main big relays is the only way for you to discover new content.
at this point i have accepted that anything posted on nostr is automatically freely accessible to everyone on earth by default. and we should expect all the companies in the world to track everyone's data. the censorship-resistant aspect is real though.
You can only own your data when you purchase a relay that can work on your behalf. Otherwise, you are just owning your keys/identity.
Been saying for ever
#nostr and #bitcoin are open public network ..
If you are sharing your real Identity.. behave well
If you are anonymous..there is no reason for you to NOT behave well :-)
Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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I want to know what you saw that made you say this? Did I stop too long on a picture of a naked lady? π
@Vitor Pamplona like, βJesus Christ, Guy is just all day scrolling through #NSFW and #PenisButter hashtags, I gotta say something so he knows I can see this shit.β π€£
WYKYK
Pretty much. That together with lots of searches that can be deemed questionable.
...Zapping our #OnlyZaps girls. Gotta support content creators π₯Ή
I only check #NSFWΒ for finding stuff to delete from my relays. Nothing else!
Vitor will be the judge of that π
Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
Fuck this shit! I'm out! Freedom tech...
It's only free if you take control. If you don't care about your relay list, it's not much different
Suggest some relays will ya
Amethyst defaults are pretty good. Nostr.wine is what I use
But I thought this was freedom tech? π§
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Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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Reminder that store owners can see you walking into their store, and can notice how long you stand infront of what products. Their eyeballs can also observe everything you buy at that store.
I can't stress this enough
Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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And that is why I don't use #Primal : requesting to sign messages at every UI interaction doesn't feel right.
What other nostr apps do you use? Is there one that is more like Instagram and less like Twitter?
Olas
I use Amethyst (can display short notes feed and media feed) on mobile and Nostrudel on desktop (browser) because of its versatility and clarity about relays interactions.
Does running your own relay sidestep this? Do relays share data between each other? Been on nostr for ?2 years.. Still haven't fully wrapped my head around it's inner workings
Running your own relay helps with backups, but your public info is public.
So make sure to disable the location on yiur photos π
βMAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEMβ any links/advice as to how I do this please?
Talk to them. Each relay has an operator. If they don't want to talk, don't use them.
Are there any up-to-date sources for recommended Nostr relays? Since relays form the backbone of Nostr, having a reliable list would benefit everyone.
No one has built one yet. You could build it
Anyone can see this just by logging in with your npub
Relays can see much more. They can see which posts you are looking at because you are downloading the likes for them. They can process your interests by tracking what you want to download over time. This is much more information than what the events themselves have.
I'd nuance the privacy part a bit. On nostr, every follow, reaction, reply and post is necessarily public - it goes with the interoperability and portability dimensions. And relays can still infer a lot of a user's interactions from the data they request. See
Also, since everything you post is signed, nostr doesn't really have a delete or "forget me" mechanism. Which is something to keep in mind, always.
Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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This is important for people to understand.
Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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It's not just the relays you use. It's ALL relays that are publicly writeable. If you care about privacy, use a VPN or TOR.
Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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a good case for personal WoT relays
If your personal WoT relay stores all the notes of any given kind, no one has to know which ones youβre reading.
What Vitor is pointing out here is extremely important, BUT it is very easy to misinterpret it as: "RELAYS ARE TRACKING YOUR NPUB AGAINST EVERY QUERY YOU MAKE"
which is just false, since they can't. They can however see every write that you do. So can everyone else, but they can also associate your IP to it. So use a VPN.
Now what this post is hinting at is that relays CAN do meta analysis to figure out who is querying these posts(by looking at follow lists and author filters) or which IP is browsing what content, so they can create a profile to some degree. Which is why you SHOULD connect to trusted relays.
Just pointing out the hidden details so people don't get the wrong ideas from it.
Periodic reminder that your relays see absolutely EVERYTHING you do on Nostr. Regardless of which Client you use. They literally see the app downloading zaps, replies, and reactions when you scroll your posts in real time.
So... MAKE SURE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE and that you TRUST THEM with that information.
Nostr is just like a browser. The server has to know what you want to see to send it to you, and that gives them the power to track you and see what you are asking for. There is no way around it.
I can't stress this enough.
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Good thing I'm just posting free recipes and dumb cat gifs 

Good thing I'm just posting free recipes and dumb cats in GIF form, then
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Which relays should you not trust?