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I have heard men complain about the fact that they will match with women on dating apps and send them a message and the women will often not respond. Let me offer something: If your opening message is asking a woman: how her weekend is going how her evening is going what she’s up to this weekend/ evening Or any other dry toast question that one would ask a friend where there is already an established relationship, you are severely hurting your chances. She does not want to tell Matt, 37, what she’s up to right now. Because you know what she’s up to? Probably lying on her couch scrolling through hundreds of men trying to find one iota of heat between her legs. Tell her why you want to get to know her. Express your intentions, desires or what it felt like to see her profile. And if you can’t because you just quickly swiped and you’re not actually that interested, go play a video game instead.

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Suggestions for great openers on dating apps, sequentially asked in this order: β€œDo you think 2 strokes or 4 strokes are better?” β€œDo you think decentralized sovereign states will offer greater peace and prosperity or might they result in increased polarization and civil war amongst neighbors?” β€œIs the dilution of fiat money a great concern to you? Do you think Rothbard made good points or nah?” β€œDoes anyone actually review the open source code or do they just raw dog and hope for the best? What are your thoughts, high low?” β€œWhat programming language is superior? Rust or C++?” β€œWhat degree Celsius is most performant when soldering on a teeny tiny microcontroller?” β€œDo you think people should be able to exercise unrestrained freedom with their 3D printers? Is House Bill 2321 totally cucked?” β€œHow would you feel if I told you I was producing microscopic drones?” Follow me for more dating tips View quoted note β†’
Discussion of online dating is precluded by the notion of dating apps being illusory for me. Been there, done that - it’s just like porn or any other simulacra that people take up bc it’s easy and convenient. I’ve become a firm believer that illusory experience and pursuits should be avoided. If you’re reeling from a breakup, remember what it is that feeds your soul and do it again, find ways to be social while doing what you love. Even if it takes longer to find someone, at least you’ll find them as a β€œwhole” person, and more than likely you’ll have a foundation of shared interests and values to build a relationship on. Reject modernity, embrace tradition.
Can you share what your boyfriend/husband said in order to land you? πŸ₯ΉπŸ™ Y'know… THE thing. πŸ₯°πŸ«  I'm kind of interested now & I find that seeing concrete examples of things that do work is always a better illustration than getting shown things that don't. πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ Cheers. πŸ€™