The amount of millennial couples I know who have broken up and are now doing dog visitation or sharing dog custody is just…
Why in the actual fuck are people treating dogs like human babies?
I feel like I’m taking crazy pills.
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Replacing an emotional void with children or dogs doesn’t end well. Too many emotionally immature adults out there with neglected children who end up self-parenting themselves. My mom has an ngo that helps single moms and the stories of neglected children are so traumatising. Maybe work on inner peace and stability first. When you are whole, everything becomes a privilege and joy - your partner, children, animals.
I think people should be more upset about why there are so many broken relationships and broken families, compared to dogs. But it's also interesting to observe what people value.
I was an emotionally neglected child. Let me tell you the only thing that heals it is having your own kids.
Having kids and raising them well are two very different things. You seem like someone who knows the difference and is passionate about being a good father. Wishing you well. Wouldn't hurt not to pick on dog lovers on a weekend :) If you’re feeling fiery, there are always oppressive governments globally or bad people to take on instead.
I haven't heard it put this way before. Interesting take.
He didn't pick on dog lovers, he picked on people who trade their dogs like kids.
Because they don't have kids, but they have a hole in their soul that wants kids, so they substitute dogs for kids, like substituting living together for marriage, and pretend their dog is a kid, and form unhealthy and dysfunctional attachments to their dog, so naturally, split custody makes sense to these insane people.
It reminds me of women who never became mothers, and have the unmet need to mother children, so they get into government to "mother" the electorate.
Instead of having dogs, have kids.
They live longer.
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The amount of millennial couples I know who have broken up and are now doing dog visitation or sharing dog custody is just…
Why in the actual fuck are people treating dogs like human babies?
I feel like I’m taking crazy pills.
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I was in a 10 year relationship, it probably only should’ve lasted five years, but we stayed together primarily because we shared a dog.
In retrospect, I should’ve left that relationship much sooner, but when I started dating her, neither one of us wanted kids.
As an only child, my dog was the first time that I learned to love something more than myself, and now I’m a very proud father.
I completely understand this phenomenon, because I lived it. Time to perspective, and I’m grateful I found my way.
At this point, since my daughter arrived, I have basically given them up, but I’ll never let him go… View quoted note →
Not wanting kids is like not wanting to be healthy or lose weight. Just because you don't want it doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.
Soon as I had a kid, I see where I went wrong, and wish I did it 10+ years ago.
I would have grown up much sooner.
This has been the most insane stretch of my life, but I treasure every fucking second of it.


This doesn’t happen in my part of Europe. Like, at all, haven’t seen this. People are generally still sane about most things if compared to the rest of the West. My hope is that we’ll just end up skipping that phase.
Also, don’t care too much about whatever that is that people who play-pretend being adults do.
Treating animals like humans is a satanic shit!
People today think "doghouse" is a idiom and don't realize it used to be the same way to treat them.
Pets are soooo important...then you have kids, and the proper hierarchy is restored.
My dog is great, but if there's a house fire it's kids, wife and a sincere "God speed" to doggo 🫡
Absolutely. You double back for the dog. He’s a trusted companion and buddy but he’s ultimately a replaceable member of the family.
10000%
At least it's sincere. 😂
agreed, mostly, he is not replaceable though will never have one like him again


LoL, exactly! It's very sincere. I really like my dog! (just you know, not THAT much) 😂
Agreed. I have 2 dogs but compared to my REAL family, they might as well be house plants in an emergency.
The dog-human bond is stronger than many people realize.
Nah this behavior is just a sad pathetic simulacrum of having a real marriage and a real child.
We live in a society where half of all marriages end in divorce now. I know someone who shares custody of both a dog and a kid with two different exes.
Maybe for people that don't have anything more meaningful in life than their dog... That's sad.
It’s actually not true that half of all marriages end in divorce. That stat is skewed by people who get married and divorced multiple times. It’s probably about 30%.
stop feeding the dog tell me how strong the bond is
The dog is using you for food and giving you what you need and appearance of loyalty 
Did you not get affection as a child?
great logical comeback.
a real dog gives much more than the appearance of loyalty. This guy we lost to cancer recently would have undoubtedly died to defend my kids, wife or me. You've obviously never had a proper dog. When he found mice under the snow he would bring them to us. I feel bad for you that you've never had a real bond with a real dog.


Not that he is more important than my kids or wife in anyway but I would rather have him than 95% of the humans I've met. 100% unconditional loyalty...
I simply don’t trust people who don’t love dogs.
You kind of took the word right out of my mouth.
Wife would get @npub138y5...aszc if we ever split up, not even a question. I would still have full rights to his nostr account though.
Just part of the clown world we live in.
They don’t listen to country music so they don’t know loosing the dog is part of the song😂
Who else is going to lick peanut butter off my balls?
The best is when you hear two grown adults that have no kids complain about how hard life is or how hard it is to pay bills, have savings etc. It’s like, we got 3 kids over here you have no idea what struggle is, not even close.
(internal chuckles)
Marketing mostly and societal norms shifting. I just heard someone talk about spending thousands on medicine for their dog. People aren’t having children young or are lonely and they latently love spending money
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I get your point about the current situation, but I want to remind you that the dog has been man’s best friend since the times of hard money.
I love dogs. I’m not saying don’t own a dog. Just saying it’s not a baby.
... It's very easy to explain ;)
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