This piece is very, very good. Here are my favorite tidbits, but there are other excellent points as well.
Before you make any remarks about radical feminism, you need to actually read radical feminist literature. Not Instagram infographics. Not reels. Not âthreads.â Actual books, essays, texts. You canât critique something you havenât read. (Well, you can, but then youâre just shouting garbage into the void.)
Us women need to do better at disagreeing with each other and critiquing each other. I donât believe in a blind sisterhood in the sense that if a woman is doing harmful, anti-woman things, Iâll let it slide because sheâs a woman. BUT what I wonât do is go feral on her, publicly shame, attack, or immediately ascribe malice to her; what I will do is talk to her, explain why sheâs wrong, disagree, even critique, but I wonât go down the route of being downright fucking nasty. Andrea Dworkinâs "Right-Wing Women" is a perfect example of this. Although she heavily critiques right-wing women, and thereâs a lot to critique, because right-wing women have done some really fucked up shit, which hurts more because theyâre women, Andrea tactfully, empathically, assertively and passionately critiques and analyses them. She doesnât resort to insults, slurs, or shaming, nor does she go easy on them or try to diminish the harm they cause. She shows them âloveâ in a way, tough love. We can do the same. And letâs direct some of the aggressive-ass smoke we spew towards women towards the men who actually hurt us.
When you start ascribing arbitrary things like clothing, cosmetics, personality, hobbies, hairstyles, names, and appearance to a specific âgenderâ or âsexâ, you are doing sooo much damage. It is straight-up sexism and misogyny. To suggest that being a woman or man is anything other than XX and XY, larger gametes, smaller gametes, is insanity. A female is still a woman if she doesnât have breasts, a uterus, or has short hair, facial hair, you misogynistic prick. We need to abolish gender.

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