Willow, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️

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Willow, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️
🛡️ willow_at_chaosfem.tw@momostr.pink
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Mom, Late 30s. Home Cook. Queer disaster. This is my main, because it’s where I talk about important things like being trans, parenting, doing trans stuff, cooking, trans topics, and how cute you all are! 😍🏳️‍⚧️🥰💜 I do Data Engineering in exchange for money, but find me over at [@willow_datawitch](https://hachyderm.io/@willow_datawitch ) if that’s your jam. Please interact with words, not just boosts and favorites, if you would like to follow me. I appreciate your button clicks! But I need words for vibe checks. Since I may as well spell it out for the world, I enjoy compliments from folks I already interact with, but for clarity, that’s as far as it’s going, and it’s a strictly 18+, women-and-trans-folks-only activity. I think joy is way more important than I was taught in school. I categorize some toots thusly: #EstrogenLog, #EstrogenLogLabs, #WillowsFacialDysphoria, #WillowsTransDiscoveries, #InSqueeNews My Essays: #ThingsYouCantUnsay #NoBridge #
PSA to cis folks: We know you fuck up other cis people’s pronouns all the time. There are a massive amount of you, accidental misgendering happens, it’s just a numbers game. When it does, you correct yourselves and move on. We know you can do this successfully. So when you fuck it up for #trans people, we notice. We’re not mad because you fucked up our pronouns. We’re mad because we know you know how to fix it and make it not a big deal and get pronouns correct in the future, and you do it for each other, but not for us.
My #OutreachToTheCis today was chatting with a grandmother about my life for a few minutes, wearing trans pride colors and describing the joy, but also the pain of losing touch with part of the extended family after I transitioned. She was traveling with her daughters and granddaughters, and she briefly introduced me all around.