What a blessing it is to be tired in the pursuit of a challenge of your own choosing ๐งก
TechKeenah
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Women in different countries are celebrating the decline in birth rate while Nigerian women are busy having kids like their lives depend on it.
"I'm not a feminist," says the girl who benefits from the rights that feminism has given; At 20, she is still single and not being forced into marriage with a man the age of her grandfather.
She has her own bank account, the right to vote, the freedom to wear pants, the ability to speak in public, and access to education.
Burst my brain ๐
Nothing will make you more anxious than avoiding the work you know you need to do.
Ironically, doing the work is almost always less stressful than avoiding it.
But we convince ourselves itโs the opposite.
And that lie costs us progress.
My unpopular opinions:
๐Society doesn't want women to be happy. It wants them to be useful.
๐Think about it: motherhood isn't treated like something sacred; it's more like a strategy. It keeps women exhausted, tied down, emotionally drained, financially dependent... and way too busy to burn the system down.
๐So when a woman says: "Yeah, I'm not going to play that role," people don't get angry because she's selfish.
They get angry because she's free.
๐Some of us weren't born to play along.
๐Some of us were made to question the whole damn system.
๐What's something you were taught to believe about being a "good woman" that you've had to unlearn? I want to hear your story ๐๐๐
Dear woman ๐ง๐ฝ
๐Be more than just your husband's wife.
๐Be more than just your children's mother.
๐Be more than just an Inlaw.
๐Be, you......an adult beautiful on the inside and out, complete with positive dreams and aspirations that you chase on your journey to self growth and global impact.
๐Be financially liberated enough to do that which you positively desire without having to wait.
๐Be enough to support your spouse, be enough to walk away from toxicity.
๐Be intellectual enough to birth ideas that cannot be pushed aside. Be strong enough to take charge and be relied upon without being taken for granted.
Most importantly, be valuable enough that anyone leaving you will be the one losing.
๐Be, first, you, for you.