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This is more or less the mindset I brought to dating, and it helped me ask out women, go on dates, and reject the women I knew marriage wouldn't work with, quickly. So when I found my now wife, and we started dating and with God's help discovered we could have an amazing life together, I married her 68 days after we started dating. Finding a wife is largely a sorting game. I humbly recommend, put off nothing in dating, especially speaking the truth and being authentic, especially about the life you want to build while learning and having fun. Since the difference between your public self and private self is the measure of your self loathing.