How can I get all client developers to go read, discuss, raise important controversial points and ultimately agree with this entirely? 
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Make NIP-51 useful again by fiatjaf · Pull Request #880 · nostr-protocol/nips
https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nips/blob/save-nip-51/51.md
This NIP was a mess and wasn't being followed and there were many wild standards ...
