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#asknostr what's a petty hill you'll die on? Mine is apps. If your product or service *requires* an app, I'm not using it. When my ISP told me the app was required to activate my modem, I wasted an hour of their tech support teams time by telling them I "didn't have a phone" and made them set it up instead.
There is a deep irony that the sex most obsessed with commitment is the least able to maintain it in long term monogamous relationships. 75% of divorces are initiated by women. Women, more than men, lose sex interest first and more often. "But it's because the men in those relationships suck! They don't do x, y, z in their half of the relationship!" Ok then how come the lesbian divorce rate is double and the gay men's rate is half? How many women do you know who ended functional but loveless marriages, often with kids involved, with some version of needing to "find herself" or because she "outgrew him"? You don't see that happening the other direction nearly as often. You also don't see men get praised for this kind of decision making the way women do. He "abandoned" his family, he was "selfish". But she was "standing up for herself" and "knowing her worth". Studies also show that after a disagreement, women hold onto resentment longer than men, who recover quicker emotionally. This makes it harder for them to resolve conflict in long term relationships. The problem isn't the men. Maybe it's the biology, maybe it's the technology (marriage and monogamy), maybe it's the incentives (she often walks away with half his assets), but it's not the men. The divorce rate is 50% and climbing, maybe it's time to re-examine some assumptions. Based on US marriage stats. #relationships #marriage