๐ฎโฌ๏ธ tarot:
it's not what it looks like. there are many ways that can manifest. but generally - it looks like all the right things. because that's the design. to look like it. now we wait to see what happens. because the reality is: sometimes that shadow offer is a design based on your psychological profile of what you look like you need. it is a program. it is not the reality. the reality is after all of that's fluff: what happens. silence still? a new hired proxy? more games? more manipulation? more love bombing? more punishment? what happens next. i think it remains to be seen. you can actively enable so much you allow yourself to evolve but keep everyone else in their state of immaturity while "protecting" them. there are extremely variant forms of protection. i think it so wise to consider what you think that is - and how you broker it. i am often too eager to do things for others. i have learned to slowly remove my effort to do that as i am exploited; most never notice until i am gone completely. and then the love bombing begins. then the punishment. then the wheedling. and round and round we go. cashmoney is fine. i don't need fake friends or cruel family or abusive partners. not evolving together but expecting results from your target is abuse too. the_valley is a trust model.
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