Nostr sometimes feels like that awkward party where everyone’s standing in corners checking their phones instead of talking. We’ve built this incredible censorship-resistant protocol, escaped the algorithm plantation, and then… crickets.
Here’s the psychological trap: we assume someone ELSE will engage, so we lurk instead of participate. Classic bystander effect meets network effects. Meanwhile, we’re all secretly refreshing our notifications hoping for that sweet dopamine hit of human connection.
The brutal truth? Nostr’s value isn’t in the protocol, it’s in US using it. Every like, zap, and repost creates positive reinforcement loops that keep people posting quality content instead of doomscrolling back to the bird app. We’re literally Pavlov’s dogs, but we can choose to ring each other’s bells.
Engagement breeds more engagement, and network effects are how we build the future.
P.S. - If you didn’t engage with this post, you just proved my point. 😏
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Maybe the awkward silence is part of the magic. Unlike other platforms, here we’re not being manipulated into constant noise. On Nostr, engagement means more, because it’s real and chosen. Quality over quantity, signal over noise.
Good point
OK that was good.
I am new fairly new to Nostr, it takes a little getting used to, I have been liking posts that interest me and if I think they are really cool or I feel I have some kind of a connection (for example someone post about their garden or chickens ) I have been zapping them, I think that’s how its supposed to work, not sure if I can receive zaps yet myself but I’m still trying to figure things out 😊
Nice. Welcome aboard. You’ll get the hang of it.
There’s are lots of options to setup a lightning wallet. You can download an app or go on a website and setup a lightning address.
Then go to your primal profile and you’ll see a wallet address when you scroll down. Insert your lightning address into that and you’ll should be good to go.
Do you have a recommendation for a wallet, that works well with Primal and Nostr?
Alby