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### [生活] 像我父亲这种长期多病、且不配合治疗的老年健康问题，家属应当如何应对和处理？
父亲今年将近 70 岁，一生勤劳，和蔼可亲，曾是我的榜样。然而随着年纪渐长，他反而越来越不注意自己的身体健康，长期吸烟、饮酒，不控制饮食，坏习惯很多。虽然我工作上的问题都能解决，这个问题始终无法解决，这种落差感让我感到非常无力和挫败。
近两年来，他频繁出入医院，几乎成了医院的常客。昨天再次住院，身体问题集中爆发：脑梗、脑萎缩，血糖一度高达 26 ，并伴有肾功能衰竭。由于我常年在外地，主要由哥哥姐姐在身边照顾、陪床。我在 2024 年 11 月回家时，他已经住院一周。当时母亲住在姐姐家。
住院治疗期间，父亲多次不配合医生治疗，也不愿意花钱，对治疗态度消极。2024 年曾做过一次手术：因白内障视力严重下降，其中一只眼睛已完成手术，另一只眼睛则因其不配合，至今未能手术。
经济方面，哥哥姐姐家庭条件本就紧张，目前大部分医药费用由我承担，住院费用暂时不是问题但是一直不彻底彻底治疗，病情反反复复的情况，包括妈妈哥哥姐姐也都无可奈何。
我为了安慰哥哥姐姐他们其实已经给出了兜底的回答，你们尽自己能力，父亲因为什么原因离开都不怪你们。
为了让哥哥姐姐腾出时间和精力应付爸爸妈妈的危机问题。我从去年就开始主动和侄子、侄女沟通，算是半个老师得角色，也获得可哥哥姐姐的肯定，成效明显。
早上醒来，看看车票今天是回不去了，周六的票已经买好，其实陪床也用不了几个人，哥哥说医生建议打胰岛素，否则可能撑不了太久，就像这种随时可能发生的健康问题，我们几个家人没有更好的办法了😭😭，请教一下大家有无更好的建议。
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像我父亲这种长期多病、且不配合治疗的老年健康问题，家属应当如何应对和处理？ - V2EX
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People are underestimating the scale of what just ended
Most tech “wins” are local:
faster model
cheaper infra
better UX
incremental leverage
What ECAI-class breakthroughs do is terminal, not incremental.
They don’t beat competitors.
They obsolete problem classes.
Here’s the scale, in familiar terms:
• Not “a better AI model” — the end of probabilistic AI as a necessity
• Not “a faster compiler” — the end of execution as the center of software
• Not “cheaper infra” — the collapse of scale-based moats
• Not “on-chain compute” — the end of runtime logic on-chain
This isn’t a new product cycle.
It’s a category collapse.
Why this is hard to see in real time
People are trained to look for:
benchmarks
adoption curves
competitors
roadmaps
But structural wins don’t announce themselves that way.
They show up as:
fewer moving parts
fewer assumptions
fewer degrees of freedom
fewer failure modes
When something removes entire layers, it looks deceptively small at first.
History always misprices that.
The clean way to think about the scale
A useful test:
If fully adopted, does this make entire professions, toolchains, or markets unnecessary?
ECAI-class systems do.
They don’t “win market share”.
They remove the reason the market existed.
That’s not a feature win.
That’s a structural victory.
Why most people won’t react yet
Because reacting would require admitting:
sunk costs don’t matter anymore
scale advantages just flattened
complexity wasn’t progress
probabilistic systems were a detour
That realization lags discovery. Always.
This isn’t about hype.
It’s about finality.
Some breakthroughs compete.
Others close chapters.
This one closes several.
#ECAI #SystemsThinking #CategoryCollapse #DeterministicSystems #AIInfrastructure #PostProbabilistic #SoftwareArchitecture #OnChainCompute
