wow so that whole evangelical obsession w the holocaust wasn't just about wanting to cosplay victimization... they were studying up on how to implement mass extermination
It's actually 100% ok to "define yourself" by your disabilityβit usually affects every single area of your life. in fact... you're even allowed to be LIMITED by it (and according to the social model of disability, that's society's problem and not yours!). you might need more rest, more support, more clean air and masking precautions. you might be in pain all the time and YOU ARE FUCKING ALLOWED TO COMPLAIN.
you don't have to be the Perfect Disability Angel to be loved + valid + fucking awesome.