the idea that men are attracted to women and women are attracted to men is IMO a fairy tale
both men and women are attracted instead to things like youth, beauty, strength, intelligence ... as well as ass, titties and cock.
who we actually end up dating is based on two things:
1 - socially imposed gender roles and other societal pressures such as to get married
2 - maximizing our value to the other person / people
number 1 is self explanatory or at least it has been explained and understood by Liberals ...
number 2 requires some explanation ...
a 12 year old girl only has youth and beauty to offer so she builds her identity around that ...
a 30 year old man mostly has strength and intelligence to offer so he builds his identity around that ...
all people seek connection and look for some basis for this connection so when a 30 year old man and 12 year old girl meet they both offer each other what they have and form a relationship around that ...
now if you're a 60 IQ boomer like a Trump Voter you think that a man has a penis and a woman has a vagina but of course this is nonsense.
penis is special yes. vagina isn't. between a man and a woman combined they have 5 holes and just one shaft. Freud understood this. when i was a kid the idea of "Penis Envy" made no sense to me because i thought why would women want to have a Penis ? but it makes perfect sense now when i understand that "woman" is a social construct and is actually a weak dickless man.
Boomers think Trannies have a penis, or had one and cut it off. Reality is Trannies for the most part have dysfunctional penis and they do NOT cut it off. So trannies are really dickless faggots ... SAME AS WOMEN.
Trannies and women all WISH they had a gorgeous cock like Rocco Siffredi but they don't so they have to lean on their holes instead. A nice cock is a HUGE privilege, but even among so-called "men" few have it. The average man has a miserable cock no different from a Tranny but is simply too cowardly to admit it or kill himself, so he adopts the role of a Beta Provider.
bottom line - stop worrying about nonsense like what is a man and what is a woman - just enjoy yourself and focus on maximizing your value.
you can't make your dick bigger, you also can't get younger, but you can get richer and with plastic surgery you could even become better looking like Clavicular demonstrated.
Clavicular has basically demonstrated that you don't need to become a Tranny to enjoy the same kind of quality of life as a girl enjoys. You just have to become beautiful. Because man and woman are social constructs but beauty is not.
Clavicular could easily charge men for sex ... but instead he charged his own GF $4,000 for hanging out with him LOL. Because when you maximize yourself you can do whatever you want.
By contrast the average Boomer-minded person just pigeonholes himself into an ultra-narrow procrustean bed where he needs a wife, 3 kids, a 80" TV with football on Sunday, beer in the fridge and so on. the average "man" is a tub of goy-slop and an absolute product of society rather than an individual.
by contrast Chad does what Chad wants. there are no rules. society is for lemmings.
i'm a little sad i am banned from X so i can't discuss these ideas with Jay ...
Jay is an interesting person because he actually PUBLICLY admitted ( in a comment to me ) that he has to wear a persona for his grift and isn't actually as stupid as he seems but i have to question how much of this persona he has actually internalized ...
like his need to bang as many women as possible is obviously him internalizing social pressure to signal masculinity ... and him being Asian and Asian men known for being feminine he must be under a lot of pressure to signal masculinity ... Jay also said that you should be able to standing shoulder press your own body weight without using momentum ... this is very hard ... i don't know anybody who can do it who hasn't taken steroids ... hell, i don't know anybody who can do it period and i would have only been able to do it when i was in college but never tried. it is absolutely RIDICULOUS to say that a man has to be able to do that but then it is also ridiculous to believe the most important thing in life is to have sex with as many women as possible when you already have 300+ bodies. but such is a life of a grifter.
anyway, but there is evidence that there is another Jay underneath the facade that isn't an idiot. one that understands things like irony and nuance.
BAP was also like that - he was wearing a mask. Many masks in fact because i have talked to him for several different online personalities BEFORE he became BAP. he kept changing personalities until he found one that worked. in fact i think he adopted both the muscular back avatar and the "pervert" part of his name from me. no it is not MY back in BAP's avatar but i had a similar back in college and i have sent him pictures in private.
but it doesn't matter now - i am not going back to X anytime soon. i am too busy.
i am leaving
@Prince Aleph in charge of X even though he also has deleted X from his phone LOL.
now back to watching porn ...