@jack it would be so weird but viable if you were having the same dream at the same time. I see no reason it couldn’t have happened. Idk. Anyway, stuff. Ex stuff and history, sometimes old habits of their’s roll up again. I’m not a hater, try to communicate with him, but damn that’s been the issue, he’s crabby, angry, his way or no way. He could withhold child support up to a certain amount without a Bench warrant. He went to jail for. Not paying child support for Jessica when she turned 18 he owed arrears. He could do all sorts of stuff legally. I’ll file amended returns and take the kids on mine, take him to court if he wants to play that way. He was telling me he deserved all the kids on his taxes when I filed for divorce pregnant with Seanny. Went through the c- section by myself in the OR. My dad and him were in the wanting room and my dad wanted to punch him, the kids were upset. He can be volatile. Now I’m disabled and the system does look at that. #themedicalalgorithim under threat - drs shoulda done what’s right. Anyway.