继续走自己的路，让别个BBQ啊 ​永远的座右铭[加油]

又看到名场面，锦涛在大会上被人架走那个，我觉得有点像宫斗剧里皇帝对某大臣发怒，给我拉出去斩了，哈哈哈

没去过南方山区，俺怎么能吃到这样的美味呢，见都见不到

And I also think that love is a bit like the virtual relationship on social networks, everyone talks about their own things, if you are willing to interact with me then I am willing to communicate with you, there is no such thing as having to communicate, come when you want, leave when you want. Love is the same, love when you want, break up when you don’t want to love, who can’t live without? It’s just that the situation in the real world is more complicated, it’s already meaningless, but people are still holding on to fantasies, entangled, and tangled, it’s boring

而且我还觉得，爱情还有点像社交网络的虚拟关系一样，大家都是各说各话，你愿意和我互动那我也愿意和你交流，不存在非交流不可那样，想来就来，想走就走。爱情也是，想爱就爱，不想爱就散，离了谁日子过不下去呢？只是现实世界里的情况更复杂了，本都已经没啥意思了，人还在那抱着幻想，纠缠不清，剪不断理还乱，就是无聊啊

Ideal love is as natural as flowers blooming and falling, and they can be friends if they are decent to each other. How far love can go depends on the joint efforts of both parties, and it cannot be done unilaterally. No one can ask the other party to love you forever, because you may not be able to do that, and things may change at any time. The so-called sense of security is bullshit. Once you establish that kind of intimate relationship, you are already in insecurity, just like a person can have an accident at any time. When love develops to a certain stage, suspicions begin to arise between each other, and cracks begin to appear. This is inevitable. Who knows what love is when you are young? It's just a desire to be loved. The funny thing is that being loved in Chinese sounds very similar to sadness. Is it a coincidence? There are too many couples in the world who go from loving each other to killing each other. In fact, these people don't know what love is at all. They just want to possess and control, because that is the original nature of human beings. So I think that love is a product of evolution, not an instinct. Human instinct is selfishness. When you find that you are not so selfish one day, love may arise. Of course, you need to meet the right person at the right time and place. good luck

理想的爱情就如同花开花落般自然，好聚好散，彼此体面些都还可以做朋友。爱情能走多远要靠两人的共同努力，只是单方面是做不到的。谁也不能要求对方永远爱你，因为你本身可能也做不到那样，随时都可能发生变化的。所谓的安全感都是扯蛋，你建立了那种亲密关系，就已经处在不安全之中了，就像一个人可以随时发生事故一样。爱情发展到一定阶段，彼此就开始产生猜疑，裂痕开始产生，这都是必然要经历的。年轻的时候谁懂得什么爱呢，不过是渴望被爱罢了，可笑的是中文里被爱听起来和悲哀很像，是一种巧合吗？ 世间有太多情侣从相爱最终走到相杀，其实这些人根本不懂得什么爱，他们只是想占有和控制，因为那是人初始的一种本性。 所以我觉得，爱是一种进化后的产物，并不是一种本能，人的本能是自私。当你有天发现自己没那么自私了，爱可能就产生了。 当然，你需要在合适的时空里遇到那个你觉得合适的人。 good luck

一般来说人年轻时追求爱情不太会考虑这个爱情是不是有天会变质，结束这些，刚开始都很甜蜜的，其实本质上并不是多么喜欢对方，而是觉得自己好像被人在乎了，也就是没那么孤独了，至少让身边的人看起来是那样的。这有点像飞蛾扑火一般，其实并不知道那可能很危险，只是被那迷人的光亮所诱惑就不断地扑上去。很多人不断地恋爱失恋再去寻爱，结婚离婚再婚，自以为是的去寻找所谓的真爱，太可笑了，人们只是喜欢玩这种无聊的情欲游戏，然后把它称之为，爱情。

大半夜看了个沈阳砍人的视频，这逼国人真是没救了

大早上看这个新闻，我是觉得这样的年轻人挺可怜的，再好的教育背景也是相当失败，过于追求自身的物质欲望，非要买那么贵的房子吗？最后无力支付就选择一死了之，那之前的所有努力也都白费，过于自私了吧。 没有一定的背景，在资本的游戏市场里你玩不了多久的，老老实实做个普通人也挺好啊 这样的人需要适当躺平一下，出去旅旅游，山区支个教啥的，净化一哈自己高度物质化精致利己主义的内心，或许会有不一样的人生。人生没有什么绝路，不一定非要选择那样极端的方式。