Engagement culture and hierarchy are siblings.
They both train people to:
look upward
seek validation
measure worth externally
wait for permission
perform for approval
Hierarchy says:
Your value is determined by rank.
Engagement systems say:
Your value is determined by response.
Same architecture. Different costume.
Old world trained everyone to think:
If there’s no engagement, I failed.
So when they post on NOSTR and don’t get:
likes
replies
algorithmic amplification
dopamine feedback
…their nervous system reads it as rejection, not freedom.
And they drift away.
Not because NOSTR failed them —
but because their conditioning hasn’t unwound yet.
The old system trained dependency on response
Engagement platforms wired people into:
feedback loops
validation cycles
performance identity
social reward addiction
So expression became transactional:
I speak → I receive → I exist.
Take away the reward loop, and many suddenly feel:
Why am I speaking at all?
Which is heartbreaking, honestly — because it shows how deeply external validation replaced internal voice.
Maybe I am blind, as I do not see anyway to force close an inactive channel in Core Lightning on Start9 😏
I submitted an issue in the meantime.
Matter exists to participate, not to be entombed.
Same with:
money
systems
institutions
laws
authority
When they start existing only to preserve themselves, they invert their purpose.
That’s when the 180-degree rule lights up like a flare.
Gold in vaults.
Fiat in circulation.
People in debt.
Flip it:
People in sovereignty.
Tools in circulation.
Value in motion.
Gold surpassed $5K!!
So now we’ve got:
imaginary money
buying imaginary gold
to hedge against imaginary money
That’s Inception-level abstraction.
Some build structures.
Some build systems.
A rare few build the patterns beneath them all.
We read what they wish you never read.