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If you see something, say something! Call them out and make sure they hear you! - "Hey! I like your shoes!" - "Thank you for opening that jar for me!" - "I'm glad you're here!" - "Do you need a hug??" - "The world is better because I know you're in it!" - "Your hair looks great!" - "Daamn! Have you been working out?" - "I hope you have a lovely day!" You never know which act of kindness will make all the difference to someone, so take every opportunity to be kind. Your kind words today may be why they're still around tomorrow. Also, it's a great way to make friends. #PSA #PracticeKindness #KindnessIsPunkAF
Two women (to me): "how do you do that? [pick locks]" Me: *describes the proce—* Guy (who doesn't pick locks): *sits down* "I saw a YouTube video of this guy, uh..." Me: "Lockpicking Lawyer. Yeah, he—” Guy: "—So first you..." *proceeds to re-explain what I was just saying a moment earlier* Me: 😐 #MansplainingWaterToFish
I told my kid, if they flushed butter and flour one more time, they'd roux the bidet.
#PSA: remember this holiday season that you don't have to buy *new* shit for folx. Hell, you don't *have* to buy anything. - hit up a thrift store - make something for someone - upcycle - trade with someone - skill swap - join a local buy nothing group - give something away - just spend time with someone - pirate something - do that one thing your partner really likes - message someone on Signal to tell them how much you appreciate them - just be you—that's enough 💝 —Love, Alice 💕
Hey mstdn.social I just got sucker-punched by an antisemitic bigot with the username "JewFreeFedi". This wouldn't have happened with moderated registration.
I wish there was a Mastodon setting to *completely* hide media posts without alt-text. Not only would I use it in a heartbeat, but I'd encourage all my followers to as well.
Today I received the coolest, most thoughtful gift. Twice. My day started out when a friend traveled from far far away, and dropped by to bring me a package on behalf of @npub1d2ac...2px3, whom they had just visited. It was a beautiful *handmade* puzzle box, with three interesting locks built into it, and a *four-page* letter of appreciation—the amount of effort they put into making me feel special is extraordinary 🥰 --- Then, a couple hours later, a package arrived from my girlfriend. Inside were two lever locks. One from the 1830s, and one from the 1920s that is stamped with "Mastodon" 🥰 The 4-lever lock is now the oldest I'm my collection, and the Mastodon lock is the first 8-lever lock in my collection. --- And finally, a couple hours after the package arrived from my girlfriend, I got to meet a new friend from Mastodon in person for the first time—which was its own present 🥰 --- So today I got to add five unique new locks, several good memories, and a new friend to my collections. It was a good frickin' day 💝 #Gratitude #ThreeGoodThings #GetLovedNerd
So I've been fucking around, testing Google's purity filters some more—seeing what it rejects, what it accepts, and what changes it makes without instruction. In every case, if I give it a photo with much skin showing, it rejects it. If I give it a photo with underwear or lingerie showing, it tends to cover me up more (i.e. it zips up jeans, buttons up shirts, makes fishnets opaque, etc). It almost always makes me look less like a tomboy. Often enlarging breasts (even while hiding them away). This time it accepted four photos (out of well over a dozen submitted), from three different photoshoots—two with face covered and two with face showing (which is the closest I've done to a face reveal now, I guess 😋). *more details in alt-text. Conclusion: Google has baked a technology into its default Android photo gallery that (surprise) reinforces unrealistic ideals of beauty while simultaneously treating feminine bodies as inherently sexual and in need of censoring. Follow-up: I'd like to see folx with other body types, gender presentations, and styles, test the edges of what Google Photos "Remix" and "AI Enhance" features will accept, and what un-requested changes it makes to those images. Does it censor topless men? Does it lean into racist stereotypes? Does it make thinner femme folx more curvy? Does it make curvier folx thinner? If this tech is going to be crammed into everything, where kids, friends, and corporations are going to be using it, we should understand the potential psychological effects and built-in biases we're likely to encounter with increasing frequency. #AlicePics #AI #ForcedPurity #Testing