This is the most challenging with being a late-diagnosed #Autistic. When you are not diagnosed "officially" (meaning, it's on record), they'll tell you they won't believe it until.
But once you have it on record, they'll accuse you of faking it.
RE: 
Bluesky Social
The Daily Tism (@thedailytism.com)
“There was nothing wrong with Becky before this so-called diagnosis. She seemed totally normal the one time I met her.”
https://thedailytism.c...