*Highly* recommended reading for anyone who is interested in or has the tiniest bit of experience dealing with matters of love, desire, or romance (which should be most people).
I read this many years ago and still return to it time and time again when I feel confused about my feelings or reactions to a particular person, or when, God forbid, I start to develop a crush and find myself needing a reality check. Most insightful secular book I am currently in the possession of.
