Teach your kids that there is no losing only learning. That they should prepare for whatever game it is they are playing with unquestionable discipline and dedication and then if they get beat, to respect the opponent and learn from them.
Relative: Stack sats, get debt free, raise antifragile kids, stay healthy, build parallel systems, ignore politics and main stream news
Absolute: hold all of the above lightly, itβs all a game.