đĽÂ Why I Made Public Speaking Mandatory in Our HomeschoolâAnd Why Every Child Should Learn It đĽ
We live in a world where kids communicate constantlyâbut say less and less.
Texts. Emojis. Half-spelled words.
âśď¸ When communication is truncated, so is thinking.
How can a child form a cohesive, critical thought if their world is shaped by fragments?
So I made public speaking mandatory.
Not because I wanted performersâ
But because I wanted our kids to be presenters of their thoughts: calm, confident, and clear.
When looking for options, I chose Gavel Club over a speech team. Most teams focus on perfecting one speech. But real life doesnât hand you a script.
So I started a Gavel ClubâJunior Toastmasters.
It gave our kids the chance to repeatedly practice not only giving speeches, but also rotating through key roles:
Toastmaster (host)
Timer
Grammarian
Evaluator
They also practiced impromptu speaking through Table Topics, learning to think critically and speak under pressure.
Week after week, they experienced the value of showing up and being heard.
And this started in elementary school.
One of the best reasons to start young?
Kids havenât developed their inner critic yet.
Adults often fear public speaking because theyâve learned to judge themselves through imagined critics. But kids raised in safe environmentsâwhere theyâre encouraged to speak and stumbleâgrow up unafraid of being seen.
âśď¸ Confidence isnât something you flip on at 18.
Itâs built, little by little, through repetition.
When I read John Boweâs "I Have Something to Say," I felt deeply affirmed.
Bowe explores the history of rhetoric and how speaking isnât just about communicationâitâs about:
đĄ Thinking clearly. Listening deeply. Building community.
He also highlights the link between speaking and mental health:
People who can express themselves feel less isolated. They feel heardâby others and themselves.
And that kind of confidence leads to deeper relationships and fuller lives.
You donât need to homeschool to do this. Here are a few easy ways to start:
- Join or start a Gavel Club
- Practice âtable topicsâ at dinnerâ1-minute answers to surprise prompts
- Invite kids to present book reports or trip recaps
- Model intentional speaking and listening
âśď¸ If we wait until kids âneedâ confidence, it might be too late.
But if we build it earlyâthrough repetition, structure, and supportâtheyâll grow up knowing their thoughts matter.
Public speaking isnât just a skill.
Itâs a tool for life.
Letâs raise kids who donât just have something to sayâbut know how to say it with clarity, courage, and care.
If youâve tried this with your kidsâor want toâletâs connect. Iâd love to hear your story.



