Yeah. DMs on Nostr are an atrocious situation, there’s like a dozen different ways to send a DM. Honestly the fragmentation makes mass adoption impossible. My client doesn’t support NIP-17 and I recently noticed I’d missed a handful of DMs from friends when I opened a NIP-17 supporting client to receive my emails via
@npub1p5m9...jnut
Imagine a normal person finding out that they didn’t receive messages addressed for them because there are multiple DM specs. They are going to come to the conclusion that Nostr is trash.