Once your expenses and modest lifestyle needs are met stop selling your time for money. Every additional hour sold for money is an hour no longer offered to the play itself. Go help others and enjoy life.
Teach your kids that there is no losing only learning. That they should prepare for whatever game it is they are playing with unquestionable discipline and dedication and then if they get beat, to respect the opponent and learn from them.
Relative: Stack sats, get debt free, raise antifragile kids, stay healthy, build parallel systems, ignore politics and main stream news
Absolute: hold all of the above lightly, itβs all a game.