I live in a heavy Amish area and one quality they have and highly regard ,that most “English”(is what they call non-Amish) seem to no longer want to do,is -they take care of their parents until their parents die,Financially and physically .
This became really apparent to me when I was subcontracting for one of the largest assisted living/retirement firms in the country and he was saying they can’t build them fast enough,especially with boomers aging rapidly now.
“Children don’t want to take care of their parents, it’s inconvenient and too much work” were his words….