The fastest way to figure what you actually want from life is to get what you think you want. Your dream neighborhood, your dream job, your dream marriage, your dream family, your dream life, itβs never quite like how you imagined it, and thatβs precisely what makes life so fun.
#orangebook #LifeGoals #ExpectationsVs #PersonalGrowth
You can have a healthy lifestyle and still feel low-energy if you constantly let yourself consumed by unnecessary thoughts or drained by one-way relationships.
Being constantly high-energy usually means that you are very good at filtering out what you donβt need in your life.
#orangebook #MentalHealth #EnergyLevels #SelfCare
When you face painful failure, you can either play the victim, or you can tell yourself that someone who had ten times worse circumstances than you achieved ten times more, precisely because they hated playing the victim and chose to take responsibility for their position in life
#orangebook #Failure #Responsibility #Mindset
The quality of your time alone is the quality of your mind, and the quality of your mind is the quality of the people you attract.
#orangebook #TimeAlone #MindQuality #Attraction
Being incapable of original thoughts is the symptom that you don't spend enough time alone. You consume too much information, and you don't train your creative muscles enough. You need to write, you need to think about problems with non-obvious solutions, you need to be bolder with the kind of conversations with yourself that you are ready to have.
#orangebook #OriginalThoughts #CreativeMuscles #SelfReflection
Nothing good ever arises from chasing other people, you should only work on becoming the best version of yourself, then be ready to take the jump and commit to the opportunities that you will now increasingly attract.
#orangebook #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #Attraction
You will struggle to reach your goals as long as you get distracted by people who tell you what your goals should be. A lot of progress begins with ignoring the rest of the world.
#orangebook #Goals #Focus #Mindset
Getting rejected is actually a privilege.
Few people tell you what you truly need to hear.
Painful words are nothing compared to a life with no growth, no change, no progress.
You are lucky if your life is full of rejections, that's the path toward your most authentic self.
The most common way of actually "wasting your life accomplishing nothing" is ironically, when you are afraid of wasting your life accomplishing nothing. You end up living the life that other people set up for you. You make few mistakes but also learn nothing. You never discover who you could have been, because they never had the courage to push your limits and explore life in unconventional directions.
#orangebook #Fear #Regret #Potential
