Life gets better once you finally become honest with yourself and hit yourself with the painful truths:
You are poor because you didn’t bother taking financial risks ten years ago;
you are low-energy because you didn’t bother changing your lifestyle ten years ago;
you are lonely because you didn’t bother investing in relationships with thoughtful people ten years ago;
you are unattractive because you didn't bother treating yourself with attention and care ten years ago;
you are insecure because you didn’t bother following through the efforts you started ten years ago;
you are confused because you didn’t bother investing in your own mind ten years ago;
you are angry because you didn’t bother listening to the feedback from reality ten years ago;
you are unlucky because you didn’t bother thinking deeply before making your big decisions ten years ago of where to live, what to work on, and who to spend your time with.
#orangebook #self-improvement #personal-growth #accountability
We have so much more in common with our parents and grandparents than we realize, and if you were lucky to be in a healthy relationship with them and learned to know them well, you eventually realized that you had actually been learning about yourself all along.
#orangebook #family relationships #self-discovery
Kids don’t learn from what you say, but from who you are, and too many parents are constantly silently judging their kids, and then wonder why their kids ended up lacking in confidence and creativity, when the answer is very simple:
because they spent their whole lives trying to get a positive evaluation from the very people who were only supposed to love them unconditionally,
and as a result, were scared of being wrong, never took any risk, and never became who they truly wanted to be, or rather, never even got the chance to explore who they truly wanted to be.
#orangebook #parenting #confidence #self-discovery
The best things in life happen offline and are not documented.
The ordinary walks and laughters with your family.
The long conversations in person with old friends you effortlessly trust.
The satisfaction that comes with tough trainings done with peers who also value their growth as a person.
It’s so easy to lose track of what you truly value, especially when you are surrounded by people who are confidently wrong.
Earn your freedom online, then learn the value of being disconnected, that’s when you will start truly living your best life.
#orangebook #OfflineLiving #RealConnections #MindfulDisconnection
When you have clear goals, you seek silence to focus and get things done; when you don't, you seek noise, new people, short-lived stimulation, and anything to distract yourself from the fact that you don't know what you want from life.
#orangebook #goal setting #self-awareness
