It's funny how most "men" have no clue how to communicate and attract women. She won't do anything for you just because you exist and asked for it. First, you need to make her interested. She won't meet you just because you want it. She will not want to sleep with you just because you are cool. You need to make her interested, communicate and show your value and superiority, and then set up everything in a way where you can get what you want without any conscious decisions and actions from her.

In a flying competition the bird will always be the winner. Not the fish. Not the turtle. And not the snake. Stop trying to be someone else!

The biggest problem modern society has is safety. Imagine being held accountable for all the nonsense that comes out of your mouth. You say something stupid — you receive an uppercut. There would be respect and wisdom everywhere.