Never relinquish your freedom or purpose for a woman. A king doesn’t abandon the castle and kingdom that he has built to marry a princess in a foreign land. She comes to inhabit his castle to be his queen. I see a lot of guys so eager to get married and start a family that they alter the direction of their life to adapt to her needs. Follow God only. Not your woman.

Making a fun session from suboptimal waves and conditions is what most of surfing is about. 🤙

Have you ever stayed in a relationship because of convenience or not wanting to hurt someone’s feelings?

GM nostr 🌞 You can just host meetups

GM nostr 🌞 Generating a community around you takes leadership and initiative. Just like with your finances and health if you are not proactive in gathering like valued people around you, it will not just happen on its own. I know quite a few successful 50+ year olds who thought that love and relationships would simply happen once they got their finance and fitness ducks in a row. Now they are struggling. Affirm to yourself: “I love that I’m at the cause and not the effect of everything that happens in my life.”