I would date an actor just so I can tell people that my boyfriend is an actor. I would wait for them to ask "Oh? What's he been in?" only to say "me" and stare in their eyes.
Die FDP darf beim Bremer #CSD nicht mitmachen und jammert rum, weil jemand auf ihre Inhalte eingeht. Das passiert wohl so selten, dass sie es nicht gewohnt sind und deswegen danach Bullshit labern. ich hab dazu was aufgeschrieben.
I got some questions to elaborate or present source to my #ADHD posts. I did the work and wrote a blogpost elaborating on some facts and link sources.
I hope this post is of use for some of you.
Please write further questions in the comments of the post that I can answer there in the appropiate lenght.
Neurotypicals: "Just break big tasks into smaller steps!"
ADHDer: breaks task into 108 micro-steps, gets overwhelmed by the long list, abandons task, start to research road building in the Roman Empire for 6 hours.
#adhd
#ADHD is standing in a messy room thinking: I don't know where to start, so l'll avoid it harder, so I'll feel worse, so now I'm frozen, so now I'm angry, so now l'm scrolling and how is it midnight and why do I feel like a piece of shit?
One of the many treats of #ADHD I hate the most: ADHDers have no internal motivation and rely completely on external motivation: urgency, novelty, pressure, competition and the need to belong. Except novelty they require negative emotions: anxiety and fear for urgency and pressure, competition and need to belong require shame. Hyperfocus is not for oneself but caused by seek for novelty.
To have ADHD is to battle negativ emotions all the time by doing stuff for _others_ and not for oneself. >>
When an #ADHD person says „I forgot“ what we often mean is:
* I remembered 5 times but at the wrong time
* I fully planned to do it but I felt overwhelmed
* I shamed myself for not doing it that I did not do it
Idee für ne neue Serie - wie Höhle des Löwen aber umgekehrt. Ein Milliardär muss fünf für Mindestlohn arbeitenden Menschen erklären, warum er nicht enteignet wird.
